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It's time for another night of debauchery at Filthy Dyke, The Gay Barn's favorite kink and cruising party for dykes and the queers who love them! The vibe is harnesses, boots, leather, fishnets, latex, mesh, chains, fetish gear, collars, leashes,...
$19
Filthy Dyke: Kink & Cruising Party
The Gay Barn presents Filthy Dyke, our favorite kink and cruising party for dykes and the queers who love them!
SATDEC 12
7 PM
Portland's Spicy Holiday Night Market
SPICY HOLIDAY NIGHT MARKET Portland's Woman-owned and Operated Sex Positive Holiday Night Market is Saturday, December 12, 2026 from 7:00 pm to 11:00 pm. Are you on the naughty list or the nice list? Things are about to get a little spicy! 🌙 ❄️...
On now & ongoing
THUNOV 19
6 PM to 9 PM
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Speed Spanking
🍑 Speed Spanking gives everyone an opportunity to play! It’s like speed dating with the added element of hand-only spanking. Impact tops can meet impact bottoms and spank for one-minute rounds. 🍑 What to expect: We begin with a brief primer on spanking. Staff (usually Bliss & violet) explain and demonstrate various techniques. Each participant […]
$22
Deva's T 4 Tea Social and Play Party
T-Time social with tea being served for socializing and conversation, for you to perhaps get to know someone new and maybe play later. Stay later for the play party, if you would like. Tastings will be offered by Mistress Deva Vortx, herself.
Portland Kinky Dating Mixer
The Kinky Dating Mixers team is thrilled to officially kickoff a free Portland Kinky Dating Mixer! We're bringing together open-minded singles, couples, and fellow kinksters for an opportunity to step away from online conversations, meet...
Lavender Rain Queer Strip Club Pop-Up
The Gay Barn's queer strip club pop-up Lavender Rain is back for the holigay season. Nothing beats the Portland winter blues like a night of red hot strippers, so come heat things up with us at the gayest strip club in town! We'll have dancer...
Fusion Dance: The Summoning
Come celebrate our residency at Sanctuary! Every third Sunday! Read below for more info! Required dress code: black Sensual Dance presents THE SUMMONING: a Dark Sensual Dance event designed by dancers for dancers as a sensual, no-sex-allowed dance journey! Singles and couples friendly! Poly & Monogamy friendly! Partner/fusion dancers, solo/ecstatic dancers, and dance-curious kink community […]