The Sub Rosa Pink Collar Weekend

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The Sub Rosa Pink Collar Weekend

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Friday, Mar 12, 2027 · 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
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About this event

You already know what you want. Maybe you've been dressing up and practicing alone, or collecting pretty things you've never worn anywhere but your bedroom. At the Pink Collar Weekend, you'll step fully into that version of yourself, under the focused guidance of Dommes who have been doing this for decades. We will polish your image until it shines pink!

Join Princessa Natasha Strange and Mistress Viola Parker at Sub Rosa, our luxe private dungeon, for a weekend of training and transformation. This is a small, carefully held group. You'll learn real service skills, get dolled up, be seen and fussed over, and find some of your deepest feminine fantasies fulfilled. We want you to leave with more confidence (along with a few assignments to keep you honest). We also want to ensure you are properly trained, because beyond being pretty, we want to make sure you are useful! Service training will be a large part of this weekend; we want to help you hone the slutty skills that suit you.

Who is The Pink Collar Weekend for?

This weekend is for anyone who wants to be transformed, dollified, bimbo-ed up, and/or sissified. This weekend is for those wanting to amplify their femme presentation, learn better service skills, and experience group dynamics and domination. It’s for folks who want to be dressed up, put on display, and toyed with.

This weekend is also for Dommes to grow their confidence and abilities through individualized, hands-on training with experienced Dominatrixes. Each FemDom attendee will work alongside Viola, Natasha, and Emma throughout the weekend, gaining skills and experience in dominating sissies, bimbos and dolls. The FemDom tickets also include a half hour of time with the Dommes only each time we meet, before the submissive attendees join.

The Pink Collar Weekend is a gender inclusive weekend to celebrate “forced” femininity in all its delicious and devious forms. We do not ascribe to the often misunderstood nature of this kind of play – which leads many to assume that sissification and bimbofication are reserved for cis men and rooted in misogyny.

We believe that everyone, no matter their gender presentation or identity should be allowed to enjoy being pretty, pampered, and controlled. We recognize the historic and problematic usage of the word “sissy” and we want to note that often in BDSM, the things that have been eroticized for us are rooted in trauma (in this case most severely for folks who are trans or nonbinary). We recognize that for some this is hurtful language, and we work to reclaim this term, transform, and pervert it. Transphobia in any form will not be tolerated, this includes folks intentionally mis-using other’s pronouns, or confusing crossdressing with transness. We welcome everyone to our events and encourage a growth mindset and expansive view of gender.

How the Weekend Works

We're keeping this group intentionally small and intimate. We love curating experiences like these, because we know that being seen and dressed-up in a cultivated private group of enthusiasts is transformative on its own. There will be breakout sessions, where each lead Domme works with a small group of sissies alongside one assistant Domme-in-training, so you get personal attention, correction, and praise.

There are 9 tickets available for submissives, and 3 tickets for the Dommes-in-training.

What You'll Experience

For the submissives:

  • Looking the part: Every submissive attendee receives a pink collar with a numbered tag, to wear all weekend. Friday night you are encouraged to come dressed up for us. Saturday and Sunday will begin with full transformation and dress-up activities. We love to see what you have, but we also have a large collection of clothing, frilly dresses, lingerie, heels, wigs, makeup – to supplement or create your looks. We will also cover: makeup fundamentals to transform you into the bimbo you’re meant to be (with a guest makeup artist, Bettie Bombshell from Bombshell Transformations); walking in heels and posture training; experimentation with bras and realistic breast forms (if desired); shapewear and corsetry.
  • Serving the part: We will train you to become the sought-after sissy/bimbo of every Domme’s desires. You will hone your service skills, including: building a real service resume and learning how to market yourself; cleanliness training, inside and out; and of course, what pink weekend would be complete without oral training.
  • Becoming the part: Guided conversations on gender exploration, open to wherever you are in your journey. Throughout the weekend we will host games and activities to help you step into your role, including The Pageant, where you will showcase your talents to your Dommes and sisters.
  • We will end the weekend celebrating your achievements with snacks, socializing, and a play party with special guest Dommes who you’ll no doubt want to dazzle with your new look and skills.

For the FemDoms:
Step into your power as a FemDom and spend the weekend training and playing with this group of sissies, bimbos, and dolls - under the supervision and direction of Princessa Natasha, Mistress Viola, and Queen Emma. Get hands-on experience, insight into the psychological aspects, and develop your skills and talents as a confident Domme. Put those skills to use at the closing play party!

Registration

Tickets

  • submissive attendee: $2,200 (9 spots)
  • FemDom attendee: $1,900 (3 spots)

Add-Ons

  • Personal guidance – $600: One of the Dommes visits your room, inspects it, and gives you personalized assignments for the weekend. She checks in privately at the end of the weekend to see how you did. There are only three of these spots available - find the application in your ticket receipt email.
  • Sissy Dress or Apron Special: Custom pieces in partnership with Versatile Corsets. [Details and pricing TBA]

What is Included?

  • Zoom call with the Dommes, about a week prior, to introduce ourselves, set intentions and answer any questions you may have about what’s to come.
  • 16 hours in our dungeon spaces, over 3 days, in-person experiential learning and transformation activities, dressing-up, and engaging in play or showcases.
  • One evening of catered sweets, charcuterie, and bevvies.
  • Two catered lunches from local independently-owned restaurants (we will make sure there are options for all dietary restrictions)
  • A private Discord channel for Pink Collar Weekend members, with access to the Dommes to answer questions, process what you’ve experienced, or coordinate slutty group outings during after hours.
  • Zoom meeting the week after for post-event aftercare and debriefing.

Schedule

  • March 3rd, 6/6:30-8pm:
    Online introductions and intention-setting on Zoom. this will NOT be recorded so please make every effort to be there in person.
  • March 12th, 6:30/7-10pm:
    In-person training begins, with catered snacks and beverages provided. This evening will include a deep dive into the skills you possess and how to make them better as well as a discussion on gender.
  • March 13th, 10:30/11am-5pm:
    Full training day, break for catered lunch, makeup training, finding clothes that fit, slutty games.
  • March 14th, 10:30/11am-6pm:
    Full training day, break for catered lunch, followed by a service-based play party and The Pageant.
  • March 18th 6/6:30-8pm:
    Online debrief and check-in meeting on Zoom. This will NOT be recorded so please make every effort to be there in person.
    Note: The FemDom attendees arrive at the earlier listed start times; submissives arrive a half hour later.

The Fine Print

This event is for adults 21+ only. All activities are consensual and negotiated, and you can always say no. Beginners are welcome. You’ll fill out a form prior to the weekend with your goals and what fantasies you are most excited to explore, and we will do our best to be responsive to your ideas. Nervousness is expected but we excel at helping shy sissies and bimbos out of the closet. This event is open to sissies, bimbos and dolls of all genders and gender presentations. The FemDom tickets are for women (trans inclusive!) and/or nonbinary individuals - not for male doms.

Cancellation and refund policy: A 75% refund is available for cancellations up to 30 days before the event start time (available through your Forbidden Tickets receipt). A 50% refund is available for cancellations up to 14 days before the event start time, upon request via email. No refunds are available for cancellations made less than two weeks before the event start time.

Accessibility
Masks are optional but welcome. We are not requiring vaccination cards at this time. Sadly, our space is not ADA accessible. The steps to the exterior door do not have a handrail; the stairs to the second floor do have a handrail, with 12 steps to the landing and 11 more to floor 2. Please request assistance if you would like someone to meet you at the door. Reach out if there are other accessibility accommodations we might be able to make for you or if you need ASL interpretation.

FAQ

What if I don’t own any clothing?
We understand that not everyone is able to keep their dream outfits on hand. We have a large collection of items that will be available for the weekend. A few weeks before the event you will send out a questionnaire asking about sizes and look preference and will do our best to have options on hand. We will also be able to provide a shipping address if you would like to order items sent ahead.

Are overnight accommodations included?
Overnight accommodations are not included. We do have a discount code for The Jupiter Hotel, which is walking distance (about 11 mins) from our space. We encourage attendees to stay there to easily allow for after-hour activities nearby. There are strip clubs and queer bars very close by, so lots of fun options for after the intensive to get into some good trouble.

What about diaper sissies and dollies?
Not every sissy/dolly is allowed to use the toilet. Diapered sissies are welcome. #2 during class time is not. Limited diapers will be available during the event so plan on bringing some that fit you.

Code of Conduct
We want everyone to feel safe and welcome to connect with themselves and one another at our events as their full and true selves. Harassment, discrimination, or bullying are not tolerated, regardless of reason or intent. We expect everyone to respect others’ identities, pronouns, boundaries, and privacy. Personal information or stories that are shared and discussed at Sub Rosa events are not to be shared outside this event. We ask that folks receive feedback with trust, respect, and grace. We agree to do the same. If a person's actions or comments make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, you may: interrupt directly if you feel comfortable, tell one of the organizers to have them intervene directly, or let us know anonymously or for follow-up in our standard post event survey.

About the Dommes

Princessa Natasha Strange
Princessa Natasha Strange, co-founder of Sub Rosa, is a BDSM educator, published author, aspiring cult leader, and wicked minx with over 30 years of experience in the world of power exchange. She is equal parts connoisseur of consensual cruelty and thoughtful educator, with a gift for taking the most intimidating corners of BDSM and making them feel like an invitation rather than an interrogation. Her book, Kink for the Curious, is part whimsical activity book — complete with puzzles and coloring pages — and part genuinely useful primer on kink and BDSM, proof that education doesn't have to mean a lecture. Curious to know more? Surrender a few minutes at SubRosaPDX.com/about

Mistress Viola Parker
Mistress Viola, co-founder of Sub Rosa, has been a professional dominatrix since 2010. She has been coaching couples as well as teaching kink classes and experiential workshops since 2017. Her popular monthly play party 50 Shades of STFU fueled femmes and kinky queer energy from 2017-2025, and is now quarterly in 2026 and beyond. She is fiercely devoted to fostering kink community and empowering folks to embrace their inner desires. You can read more about Mistress Viola at SubRosaPDX.com/about

Queen Emma
Queen Emma has been working as a professional dominatrix and in adult entertainment since 2019. She joined the Sub Rosa team as Operations Manager in early 2024, supporting the dungeon and Sub Rosa's kink classes and events. Emma is also co-founder of The Gay Barn, producing and hosting kinky parties and other events for the queer community, since 2022. Learn more at TheGayBarn.com.

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Scale of productionProduced: a dedicated venue, ticketed show or multi-part program
Social loadHigh: structured networking, participatory group work, a party where talking is the point

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